- Is your life in a “perfect storm” of transitions?
- Are negative relationships sucking all of your energy, while your career is not commanding your interest or passion?
- Are you entering your thirties feeling behind the curve?
- Are you embarking on a career change and seeking help getting organized and taking action?
- Do you feel like you’re in the passenger’s seat, along for a ride you didn’t choose?
- Do you feel out of control and paralyzed even though you know you “should” get it together?
- Are you ready to stop coasting and get in gear?
If you answered “yes” to any of those questions and you are ready to get into action, I can help. I specialize in helping women like you get back in the driver’s seat and recreate their lives so that they feel confident, in control, and in love with their lives.
Most of my clients resonate with one of four situations:
1. A breakup or a negative relationship is sucking all your energy. You are ready to move on and create a life that commands your attention, but you’re stuck.
Thoughts associated with this situation:
- “I’m smart, successful, and independent—so why am I letting a breakup control me?”
- “My relationship doesn’t make me feel good and is clearly not the right match—so why can’t I let go?”
- “I can’t stop thinking about him/her, even when I’m at work or with friends. I turn it over and over in my mind—but I can’t think my way out of this. I’m starting to wonder how whole my whole life really is.”
2. You’re unfulfilled in your career and you are longing for more. You have a “good job”—perhaps a meaningful, well-paying job—but you just aren’t passionate about it. Maybe you’ve been a jumper—hopping from job to job through your twenties, never finding the right fit—or a lander—you landed in a job rather than consciously choosing it. Maybe your job is “good enough,” but not a perfect fit. More and more, you find your mind wandering frequently and your eyes traveling to the clock, waiting for the day to end.
Thoughts associated with this situation:
- “I never really planned to be a (insert career here). I just kind of fell into it.”
- “I’m successful with a good job that I should love—but I’m not passionate. I know there’s something powerful in me. I just don’t know what.”
- “I’m lucky to have a job with security and benefits. That’s what holds me back from leaving and embarking on the career that really excites me.”
- “I’ve decided to change careers but I’m overwhelmed by everything involved. I need help getting organized and getting going!”
3. You are on the verge of, or have embarked on, your thirties. Despite being the evolved person that you are, you’re starting to feel panicked about where your life is.
Thoughts associated with this situation:
- “It was okay to be experimenting in my twenties, but now it’s time to get serious.”
- “I thought I’d have it all together by (insert age here). Things are okay, but not where I’d like them to be, and I’m starting to panic! I should have it figured out by now!”
- “One by one, my friends have gotten married and had children. I didn’t want that yet—and I don’t even feel ready for it now—but I’m starting to get scared that it won’t happen in time.”
4. You are facing a perfect storm of changes. You are overwhelmed by multiple transitions—perhaps a trifecta of relationship, career, and age transitions—and you feel like it’s time to get intentional, but you don’t know where to start.
Thoughts associated with this situation:
- “Everything has changed in the last year—my relationship, my job, my living situation. I feel out of control. I want to take charge of my life, but I’m so overwhelmed that I don’t know where to start.”
- “It’s been one thing after another–I feel like not just the rug, but the whole road has been pulled out from under me!”
I can help.
I’ll help you turn overwhelming or unexpected changes into opportunities. The truth is that your transitions, painful though they may be, are tremendous opportunities for transformation. Find the career you’re passionate about, a balanced and intentional life, and be so in love with life that you naturally attract the love you want to you. You get to choose how you spend your life…and you are exactly where you need to be to start.